How to Collect Your Own Family Folklore
Because family folklore belongs to a living family,
it is constantly evolving. Each generation will forget and alter the lore
that it has received; on the other hand, that same generation will add new
verbal lore and new traditions. This creative aspect of family folklore
affects the researcher in several ways.
First, no matter how hard you try, you will never record the entire body
of your family's folklore since there will never be a time in which it will
be totally static. Don't despair. Get down what you can and encourage other
family members to do the same. Just think of collecting family folklore
as a pastime for which you have an infinite supply of raw material close
Second, think about your time orientation. The family folklorist cannot
be so absorbed in preserving the past that he neglects to record the present.
Keep your eyes, ears, and mind open. A tradition does not have to be old
to be worth recording. In fact, a good part of any family's tradition is
ephemeral and may not last long enough to pass from one generation to another.
Collecting family folklore is one case in which too much is better than
too little. Tapes can be edited and transcripts can be discarded, but the
tradition, story, or expression that you neglect to record today may be
Finally, remember that family folklore exists as part of the day-to-day
living of a family, changing and moving with that family. To separate it
abruptly from this natural context would rob it of its vitality and its
existence as folklore. It is essential to remember that the story itself--including
where, when, and how it is told--is as important as the information it conveys.
This is the essential distinction between family folklore and the closely
related disciplines of genealogy and family history. The following suggestions
are designed to help you focus on these folkloric aspects of your family.
As self-appointed family folklorist you now have two tasks ahead of you:
to learn your family's folklore and to record it for others to enjoy.